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E turned nine months old at the start of April. It's been a year and a half since I got pregnant! That is A LONG TIME.

Their development is racing ahead and it's been a while since I did a milestone post. This Dreamwidth is basically their baby book.

- crawling is happening on the regular. They're semi adventurous, but not totally zoomy. If I put them down on the floor I can expect them to move a few feet, but not end up in a different room.
- they are no longer safe to put down on beds.
- rolling. Lots of rolling. Particularly in bed. Particularly while trying to feed. Their latest trick is to roll over from their back to their front in the middle of the night and get on all fours before waking up and being upset and confused that they're awake. This is also how they wake up in the mornings. HELLO!
- also rolling on changing mat. Changing is an ongoing negotiation involving distraction and toys.
- we did painting this week and they didn't try to eat the paint ONCE. Although they did try to crawl on the canvas which pretty effectively wiped it clean
- no more sitting. Sitting is boring. Standing is the thing. They hang on to sofas, boxes, knees, tables, anything they can reach. Lots of traversing furniture and pulling things off. I'm continually moving water glasses and tea mugs and laptops out of reach and strewing safe distracting objects in their path for them to pull off instead.
- destroying houseplants. They keep tearing off leaves and trying to pull the plants off the table. I'm not sure where to put them.
- working SO HARD at independent standing! They stood unsupported in the middle of the room for like 30secs yesterday, it was amazing!
- very opinionated, very sure what they want, very big feelings. Strong immediate reactions if we try to thwart them. Usually wants to be holding an object in each hand. Gets upset when this then impedes their ability to climb on things. Very stubborn and determined
- they love playing the piano and reading books, and have started asking for things they want - reaching for books, reaching for the piano, etc. They happily turn the pages of board books (sometimes far too fast to actually read the book) and often request two or three readings of the same book in a row.
- we've had some lovely family times out in the sun, hanging laundry or watering plants or sitting and reading while E crawls around on a picnic blanket exploring the yard
- the weather got warm enough to clean and refill the hot tub, and we've been out in it with E three times. They love it! I wanna get them some little inflatables so they can float around in it
- their babbling is becoming more language like in tone and intonation, and I can often have conversations with them and feel like I understand what they're saying
- they've started getting into offering me things, mostly toys but sometimes food. Favourite game right now is to try to put toys in my mouth
- twiddly fingers while feeding - they like to pull my hoop earrings out of my ears (I need to replace my missing studs) and to pinch and grab my boobs (v painful when they won't let me file their tiny sharp claws). Wearing a fiddle necklace helps, as does giving them a piece of cloth or a small toy to clutch while feeding
- they are obsessed with tea and when we have tea they insist on taking the mug and drinking some. We drink redbush tea with plant milk which is caffeine free, so I'm happy sharing it as long as it's cooled. A few times we've given them their own tea in their sippy cup and they've drunk it with great enthusiasm.
- favourite foods: porridge with prunes softened in it for sweetness, houmous (always), steamed fennel, stirfried mushrooms, stirfried carrot and greens, cooked fish, pasta and sauce, toasted bagel slices with almond butter, banana broken into sticks, satsuma pieces (pierced for safety), melon
- generally very cheery, relaxed, secure kid, super engaged and curious about the world, adorably excited and enthusiastic about everything, cuddly when tired, thinks things we do are very funny, loves to make us laugh. They are so wonderful! ♥️
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- I've been taking E for walks in the sling. The weather has been beautiful the last few days. It's really spring. Lots of people out and about since the schools closed, not all of them doing social distancing. It's nice to nod and smile at people as I veer out of their way. We ran into our neighbours from a few doors down, who are retirees and XR activists, in the woods, and stood and chatted to them for fifteen minutes, the longest conversation I've had with them. There's a real sense of community solidarity. You pass people in the street and you know everyone is experiencing the same thing.
- We hoped to edit our Ocado order that arrived last week to add some stuff to it, but they closed their website due to high demand. So we'll have to make do without the extra stuff we thought of. At least the delivery arrived okay.
- A few more online orders have arrived. We're trying to minimise deliveries now. Wearing gloves and disinfecting stuff we unpack, then disinfecting the gloves.
- Leo printed a pattern and made a mask out of a vacuum cleaner bag. Apolocalypse DIY! They drove to their workshop, and brought home a ventilator mask and a few other useful bits - glue for mending things that break around the house, etc.
- They also drove to the vet and did a minimal no contact pick up of flea treatment. That should be our last errand for a few weeks.
- I barely did any work last week, mostly childcare and sorting the house out. We've made great progress with the tidying though. Processed our wholefoods order, packaged up two boxes of wholefoods to send to people, reorganised the conservatory/storage area at the back so it contains more stuff while looking clearer. We're making daily efforts to stay on top of the housework and keep the kitchen and living room liveable.
- Some massive milestones for E. In the last couple of weeks they've gone from "older baby" to "proto toddler". It's happened so fast! Last week they did their first forwards crawl - they've been doing backwards scooting for a while. I'd sat them on the kitchen floor while I did a couple of chores, and given them some stuff to play with. Something was out of their reach, and they they crawled towards it! A bit! Couple of movements with hands, one movement with knees. That knee movement has been thwarting them for weeks, so it's a big milestone. We need to baby proof and order and install stairgates asap. If they'll even get delivered...
- They're working SO HARD on standing. Constantly trying to stand up or pull themself up. In the last few days they've made immense progress. They can now stand up from a squat unaided, pull themself up on furniture, and today they stood for a moment without holding on to anything, then held onto something and took a step towards me!
- the elimination communication is going so well. Really successful at the moment. We're catching 100% of poos at the moment and about 50% of wees during the day. At night they're in a nighttime nappy and we only change them if they seem agitated after a feed, but they've been going all night without a change quite often. During the day they're using an independent child potty rather than the baby lap potty they started with. I put their bead maze in front of the potty so they've got something to do while they're sitting on it. They've started hanging onto the maze to pull themself to their feed to indicate their doneness after doing their business. It's a really grownup, independent moment!
- Looking across the room and seeing them standing up supporting themself is still totally surreal. Where did this giant grown-up child come from??
- they're so cheery and curious and engaged and grabby. Object permanence has happened, so if they want a thing, they still know they want it if it's hidden. They've done the cry reaction to having a dangerous thing taken away a few times, another very toddlerish moment. They have WANTS. So many wants.
- We've settled into a rhythm with bedsharing where everyone gets enough sleep. With enough contact, they've done a couple of 5+ hour chunks of sleep without a feed lately, it's lovely. We've given up on the cot and folded it up out of the way.
- E's favourite foods lately: homemade houmous still and always, the One True Food. (We stocked up on chickpeas and tahini before lockdown but are about to run out of fresh lemons.) Steamed courgette is flavour of the moment. Banana. Bean and vegetable soup. Dahl. Soy yoghurt. Almond butter. Response to other steamed veg - broccoli, squash, carrot, cauliflower - varies. Cherry tomatoes were favourite for a while but those seem to have become less interesting now. I've bought a melon which they liked the one time they had it before - will report back!

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