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E continues to be delightful. Seven and a half months is my favourite age so far. Every age has been my favourite age so far.

Recent milestones:
- learning to drink out of cups
- successfully drinking out of their 360 cup (no spill cup with lid and silicon seal all around so you can suck drink out of it anywhere on the rim)
- great strides in fine motor control
- pushing themself up from their tummy onto their hands and knees
- pushing with their hands and shoving themself backwards in an almost-crawl position
- new foods: cucumber, crackers with houmous, watermelon, steamed broccoli
- stealing sips of our tea
- recognising songs I sing to them at home at baby sign class and windmilling their arms in excitement
- getting through the night without a nappy change (we put an extra insert in, and don't put a liner in cos they stay wet and feel icky, and E doesn't poop in their sleep)

Bedtime has been a bit easier since I last posted. I've stopped trying to stick to a routine and do bedtime at a specific time. We just have supper, look out for tiredness cues, and either do bedtime straight after supper and a change into nighttime nappy, or play after supper until they seem tired.

I'm listening to the Gentle Sleep Book and feeling reassured that the "recommended" amount babies should sleep isn't evidence based and most babies sleep less than that. Which is a relief, cos E always has.

Taking advantage of naps when they happen. Today E was asleep in the car when we got home from baby sign, so I just chilled out in the parked car for twenty minutes listening to the tiny snores and waiting for them to finish their nap.

I've booked us a holiday! We're going to Amsterdam for four nights in the first week of April, just the two of us. Sharing a seat on the Eurostar - I paid extra for a journey at civilised times. Staying in an adorable studio apartment by a lake which is affordable, 45 mins from the centre of town without too much walking, and has a cot and high chair, although I imagine we'll be sharing the bed. I'm excited! Recommendations for baby friendly activities in Amsterdam welcome!

There are two things making me nervous: firstly I hope we're not sick when the time comes, and secondly I'm gonna have to be on it with planning our travel. Without a car seat there isn't the option of just grabbing a cab if I'm running late or miss the last bus.

My friend En and I were out for the day in a little British market town when we went away together before Christmas, both with babies in slings. We had a lovely day, but missed the last bus back to the park and ride. We were totally stranded. Had a choice between either walking for 45 mins along roads with no pavements or streetlights in the dark (nope) or calling our partners and begging one of them to come and collect us, take one of us back to the car while the other watched the babes, and then convoy back to put them both in their carseats. It took hours, was embarrassing, and made me realise how important it is to plan properly when you're travelling with a baby.
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We're going on holiday, but we don't know where yet!

We've earmarked the week March 27-April 4, and at the weekend I spent a few hours researching options that are a) sunny, b) less than four hours flight away, and c) beautiful and interesting. Originally I was thinking Barcelona, for the sake of going somewhere I already know so we don't have to spend ages exploring a new city (Leo has a bad hip and their mobility can be somewhat unpredictable), but when I looked up prices it seems that everyone else knows how great Barcelona is, and Airbnbs are pretty expensive. So we're looking elsewhere. My top choices are:

Antalya, Turkey - Mediterranean beach town with beautiful cliffs and turquoise sea, great snorkelling, boat trips, a sunken ruined city, waterfalls, impressive Roman and Byzantine ruins, lovely old town, museums and galleries. 18-22 degrees in March/April, although the sea is still cold (16 degrees). Turkish food is delicious and relatively Leo friendly - lots of fish and rice.

Marrakech, Morocco - I've wanted to visit Marrakech for years. I want to explore souks and art gardens and visit mosques and tombs and museums and sit on rooftops and soak up all the colours and get lost in tiny alleyways. 21 degrees in March/April. If we're in Morocco, I'm also tempted to do an excursion to the coast, either to...

Essaouria - 3-4 hours away from Marrakech via direct coach, port town with beach, art, markets, coastal walks. Big enough to have lots of places to eat, but not too crowded and touristy. It's the Atlantic, not the Mediterranean, so the sea will be colder, the waves bigger, and the wind windier.

or Oualidia - a little further north up the coast, no direct transport links so we'd need to rent a car and drive. Remote, unspoiled coastline for romantic getaway. Nothing to do but walk on the beach, sun ourselves on the terrace, and eat oysters.

We're both feeling a little overstimulated and overwhelmed from various work stresses, so right now the latter is actually sounding rather lovely. But I'm a bit nervous about being able to easily feed Leo in the land of tagine, tomatoes, peppers and couscous; and the extra travel involved in getting to the beach is time we can't spend sunning ourselves, as well as being a faff to arrange.

I also looked into Tunisia, but it's apparently a little less warm than Morocco (being further north), and the food is even more nightshade-rich, so it didn't make the shortlist.

While I was looking up flights, Skyscanner helpfully reminded me that in the event of a no deal Brexit, we'll need passports with at least 6 months left on them in order to be able to travel. (I'm mildly surprised we'd be able to travel at all, but thank you Skyscanner for the heads up!) Leo checked their passport and lo, it expired a couple of months ago. Ooops.

They've sent off for a new one, which allegedly takes 3 weeks, and we're planning to go away in a month. So will the passport office process it on time? Place bets now! We talked it over, and decided that if the passport is delayed, booking the trip and then realising at the last minute that we can't go would be quite a stressful experience. Chances are, the passport will come back in 2 or 3 weeks and we'll have 1-2 weeks notice. We had a look, and discovered that flights in a week's time are very much available and the same price as the ones in a month's time. So we've decided not to risk it. We'll wait for the passport to arrive, and then book everything once we know we can leave the country.

This is super frustrating - I dislike uncertainty and was hoping to have this holiday all booked so I could start properly anticipating it, it's well overdue - but I think it's ultimately less frustrating than wasting the flights and not being able to leave the country would be if something slows down the passport process. So we haven't decided where we're going yet! Once passport is in hand, we'll have a look at what's available and make a decision then. (If passport does not arrive in time, we'll do something in the UK.)

It's quite exciting, having a surprise holiday to look forward to. Any of the options would be lovely, and to be honest whichever we don't do now, I'd quite like to do later. I'm looking forward to seeing what we end up with!

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