We use the hideously expensive once every 3 months kills all parasites spot on from the vet on our animals, and use it once or twice a year which seems to be enough. As you say they are cat fleas, so a. Won't survive on humans alone and b will get back on the cat, but her, then die. So don't fret too much about the fleas.
I can't come to you, we have too much on here, but if it would help and you would like to you are welcome to come and stay here for a bit for some respite if getting here isn't too hard. We're messy, not brilliant at keeping on top of housework but adding an extra person or two of stuff to deal with is no problem, we could feed you, do laundry and provide some baby help. I'm still feeding Kitty. I have no idea how nutritious my milk is after 2.5 years, but I wouldn't mind trying to wet nurse your child to give you a break, though they might be allergic to my milk I guess - we currently aren't eating soya but are eating lots of dairy and eggs. Caveats are: every morning we are out - Kitty has something on with me, and she needs lots of attention. And b. I've taken on some work, so 3 days a week I'm trying to get on with that (eg tues/thurs/sat but not this Tuesday), so wouldn't be able to provide baby help during those times; I'm behind. However there are a lot of hours in the day so outside of work oclock I can help and meal times and laundry... When the TV is on its insane cartoons, mostly in French, rather than adult stuff. I don't have isofix in my car which might be an issue if you need ferrying places.
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Date: 2019-09-28 02:47 pm (UTC)I can't come to you, we have too much on here, but if it would help and you would like to you are welcome to come and stay here for a bit for some respite if getting here isn't too hard. We're messy, not brilliant at keeping on top of housework but adding an extra person or two of stuff to deal with is no problem, we could feed you, do laundry and provide some baby help. I'm still feeding Kitty. I have no idea how nutritious my milk is after 2.5 years, but I wouldn't mind trying to wet nurse your child to give you a break, though they might be allergic to my milk I guess - we currently aren't eating soya but are eating lots of dairy and eggs. Caveats are: every morning we are out - Kitty has something on with me, and she needs lots of attention. And b. I've taken on some work, so 3 days a week I'm trying to get on with that (eg tues/thurs/sat but not this Tuesday), so wouldn't be able to provide baby help during those times; I'm behind. However there are a lot of hours in the day so outside of work oclock I can help and meal times and laundry... When the TV is on its insane cartoons, mostly in French, rather than adult stuff.
I don't have isofix in my car which might be an issue if you need ferrying places.